"...positive approach seems to be breading positive outcome."

Isn't this the basic concept of the Law of Attraction? I find this kind of attitude in life really does work, whether you win back your M or not. It's about how you feel inside, about yourself, and that generally radiates out to the people around you. Still, if one's spouse isn't in the same place, then nothing you can do can change that, but one can hope to influence the sitch in a more positive way. (I hope I'm making sense here ).

I am so glad there are all these positive things coming your way, Phoenix. You sound more relaxed and in charge of your life (not that you haven't before, but there seems to be more positive stuff coming from your W then before too, IMHO - a good combo). \:\)


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim