Even if I can't say the words to my H, I can say them here, and just get it out of my system. Thankfully, despite the venting from time to time, I am pretty positive about my future, one way or the other, so I'm not feeling depressed or sad, or anything ... not even frustrated, because I have decided those negative feelings are pointless. I cannot control my H, and if he sees fit not to at least try and meet my communication/sexual/intimacy needs, then so be it. Ultimately, it's up to me if I want to stay with him. He has to come to a point where he feels the need for introspection, and change, before anything can be sorted out in our R.
None of us can truly know what the future holds, so I am just going to enjoy each day, and find the blessings in them, and the future will take care of itself. Life is about more than just my M, and R with my H.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
Thankfully, despite the venting from time to time, I am pretty positive about my future, one way or the other, so I'm not feeling depressed or sad, or anything ... not even frustrated, because I have decided those negative feelings are pointless. I cannot control my H, and if he sees fit not to at least try and meet my communication/sexual/intimacy needs, then so be it. Ultimately, it's up to me if I want to stay with him. He has to come to a point where he feels the need for introspection, and change, before anything can be sorted out in our R. 