Many people spend their time looking at the closed door and missing what's behind it. Others look at the new door but are too afraid to open it. Some open the new door.
Jeff, I know you will get to opening that new door. Don't be afraid of what's behind it. I actually feel there is a lady out there who is going to benefit SO MUCH from your company. OK, you may not feel like finding her yet but one day .. there's one lucky lady out there.
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.
My old friend - it's so good to see you with such a positive attitude about what life holds for you. My friend, you've made it - now it's time to start living again.
Best wishes for the future! You are (in my book) definitely a winner for having come through this having tried your damndest to make things right. You should rest easy in knowing that.
You sound good, Jeff! Keep doing what you're doing.
Take care!
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
Jeff...going back to 'old techniques'. Yes Jeff...to hate your W....would be 'wimpy'. 4kids talked to me about resentment and guilt. Bah.....wimpy.
Who you were years ago when you met your W...is not who you are now. Your 'life history' was not the same. Your 'life experience' was not the same. The 'life knowledge' you've amassed....is greater.
The unknown is scary Jeff. It's a tough game to play. The strategy is different. I hope we can exchange 'game books'.
Your buddy, Frank
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
