I've wanted to get one forever but H would not allow it. He was a leg man. They are cheaper in the mid-west. I am just using the $5K price because that is what my friend paid. The weird thing is that I am happy with the rest of my body but NEVER felt like a woman because of this. I've had two children, breastfed them for two years each, and still feel like I am waiting for puberty to come.

What do men really feel about it? Do even intelligent men (like the ones on this board) feel it is ok? My H always hated women who got them and classified them as superficial. I don't want to have big ones. I just want to feel normal. Sorry, to ask about this on your thread, I just really want to know.


Me45 H45 D13 S10 together-23 years married-21 years
MLC Divorced 10/3/07
Married to a wonderful new man.