Cadesmom .. the only person who needs to be happy with your decision is you. For what it's worth, I think your decision is honorable, but it doesn't really matter what I think. It's not staying with someone that cheated that would be "weak" in my case, it's staying with someone who wouldn't respect me for staying. It's a fine distinction, but an important one. At least, it is for me and my sitch.
