I know this won't make sense to some, it kind of makes me doing all the work while H is the one who cheated, but trying to save my M was something I had to at least try to do and see if we could be good again before I could kick him to the curb.
That's absolutely right CM and there is no one who can tell you differently. If you threw in the towel before you were ready to do so, you would never forgive yourself. I know myself that I would feel more of a coward to run from this situation than to fight to the bitter end in order to save my M - I think it is worth the effort, unfortunately a lot of people take the easy way out (IMHO)but find out later that they're sorry for not giving it more of an effort.
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
