Divorcebusting.com  |  Contact      
Previous Thread
Next Thread
Print Thread
Page 8 of 14 1 2 6 7 8 9 10 13 14
Joined: Apr 2004
Posts: 5,012
G
Member
Offline
Member
G
Joined: Apr 2004
Posts: 5,012
Mojo,

Love ya lady, but I have often thought that you are going to seriously lose new people to this BB who are reading your posts. Yeah, many of us here do know what you are talking about when you refer to bunny, cow, lioness, monkey etc. But can you imagine what it must read like to someone who is new and unfamiliar? Same thing kind of applies with the ennegrams? Mentioning numbers for personality types doesn't mean anything to someone who doesn't know what it is. I realize, they could speak up and ask....but many people don't they just wait and try to catch on.

I saw Heywyre's request for an english translation, so I had my H read a few of the posts too....and he was THOROUGHLY confused by what you were saying.

I know it's so perfectly clear to you but it's greek to many people. It's just a thought. Perhaps a thread with what these things mean?


Well behaved women rarely ever make history!
Joined: Mar 2007
Posts: 652
C
Member
Offline
Member
C
Joined: Mar 2007
Posts: 652
I regularly run into things like that, then select on the name of the speaker and read previous posts... then several hours later wonder where the day went!

At least my time here isn't completely wasted... I think I've found the ultimate field guide to understanding the rest of humanity.


a fine and enviable madness, this delusion that all questions have answers, and nothing is beyond the reach of a strong left arm.
Joined: Apr 2004
Posts: 5,012
G
Member
Offline
Member
G
Joined: Apr 2004
Posts: 5,012
CE,

Oh sure, they could click on her name and dig down, no doubt...and probably learn a lot in that process too. I just thought it might kind of be cool to have an easy reference for some of the newbies. Maybe a Mojo Shorthand course


Well behaved women rarely ever make history!
Joined: Aug 2005
Posts: 2,288
L
Member
OP Offline
Member
L
Joined: Aug 2005
Posts: 2,288

Do you really think Mojo cares that people don't understand what the heck she says half the time? She lives in her own world, for good or bad.
;\)
LFL

Joined: Dec 2006
Posts: 1,382
H
Member
Offline
Member
H
Joined: Dec 2006
Posts: 1,382
Quote:
Do you really think Mojo cares that people don't understand what the heck she says half the time?


If she doesn't, then why the heck is she here?

I would think that most people come to these boards in the hopes of getting different opinions to help them analyze their own situation a little better in order to help them make the right decision for themselves. However, if you are limiting the input/opinions to those who know the "monkey language" then I think you are doing yourself a HUGE diservice.


Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
***************************
Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
Joined: Apr 2004
Posts: 5,012
G
Member
Offline
Member
G
Joined: Apr 2004
Posts: 5,012
Possibly not LFL, my suggestion was just that...a suggestion.


Well behaved women rarely ever make history!
Joined: Aug 2005
Posts: 2,288
L
Member
OP Offline
Member
L
Joined: Aug 2005
Posts: 2,288
Quote:
if you are limiting the input/opinions to those who know the "monkey language" then I think you are doing yourself a HUGE diservice.

How is it doing HER a disservice?
If it helps her, then I don't care one way or the other if I don't understand every point she makes. I understand most, so I go with that.
If it bothers you, just ignore it.
LFL

Joined: Apr 2007
Posts: 561
S
Member
Offline
Member
S
Joined: Apr 2007
Posts: 561
I like Mojo's little shorthands. They're vivid, metaphorical, and funny, and save time.

Joined: Dec 2006
Posts: 1,382
H
Member
Offline
Member
H
Joined: Dec 2006
Posts: 1,382
I am not saying it "bothers" me.

If Mojo chooses to babble on about a lot of fluff that no one understands, then let her fly at it! All I was saying is that it was confusing to a lot of people, nothing more, nothing less. It was strictly just a comment and from what I believe, we are encouraged to do that on these boards.


Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
***************************
Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
Joined: Apr 2004
Posts: 5,012
G
Member
Offline
Member
G
Joined: Apr 2004
Posts: 5,012
LFL,
IMPO it's not doing Mojo a disservice, especially if all she's doing is writing out her own thoughts, sort of thinking out loud as best you can on a BB. I just think it would help others who are reading her musings, who could be going through something similar but not realize it.

If Mojo doesn't care to provide a "cliff-notes version to Mojo speak" then that's cool too. Mojo?


Well behaved women rarely ever make history!
Page 8 of 14 1 2 6 7 8 9 10 13 14

Moderated by  Michele Weiner-Davis 

Link Copied to Clipboard
Michele Weiner-Davis Training Corp. 1996-2026. All rights reserved.
Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 7.7.5