Thanks for your support, I didn't sleep much last night agonizing over all I have to do and get handed into to the lawyers and for the viewing on Monday. I'm sure my neighbours were wondering if I had completely lost it or not last night. I mowed the lawn with our broken ,mower that my son helped me get started with tears of gratidue for it starting streaming down my face. i'm sure I was a sight to behold; tears streaming down my face as I struggled to push this mower around 3/4 of an acre all the while mutter words of gratitude to God for getting it going and allowing me to get as much done as I did before it ran out of gas. Well this morning my perspective is better and I can laugh about my situation.
I haven't posted in a while. Lots of things moving forward. I was wondering about in-laws and how they treat you after Your H does something like this. Mine are welcoming the OW into their hiomes and approving of H's relationship with her. They see H as finally being happy because now he drinks as much as they do. He is taking her to see his family this week on his new motorcycle. Yuch!!. I have only had one call from his father thanking the kids and I for remembering his birthday. He was surprised that we did because of what H did. He then went on to tell me that he met her and that in his opinion it wouldn't last. I might point out that he was sober then. Their drinking alwasy bother H before this. Why the change now? Any one have any insights? Annie
My in-laws and H's side of the family have told H he is not welcome into their homes until be breaks it off with OW.
My in-laws and the rest of the family are very supportive of me and the kids.
I am very grateful for this and if it were not for them, there are many things that my kids could not have done/accomplished without their assistance.
It has been almost two years now since they found out and they have not changed their position. Yes, they love their son/brother, but they disapprove of what he is doing.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
