Hey -- sorry I wasn't in on the discussion earlier this weekend. Been there, done that and I totally understand where you are at even if our H's A's were for different reasons. I always said "you cheat, you're gone," however, you DON'T know what you will do in a sitch until it happens to you. I've allowed 1 possibly 2 EA's, 1 one night stand BJ and now another EA and am still here. Why, who knows???!!! I do know though that I will be strong enough the next time to kick his A$$ to the curb if he CHOOSES to do it again.

Anyway, you do what you know is right for you and we all support you 100%. MPO is that you are doing the right thing. And, if it turns out you were wrong, you would be hurting if you left now or waited for it to happen again, so either way would suck. Might as well stick it out and we'll pray that your M is on the up and up now and all is going to be well (that's what I'm praying for in my M too)!!

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10