Who are you talking to and what are you talking about?
I've ran back throught this thread and can't seem to find what you are responding to.
MrsNOP -
The most recent was the following:
Originally Posted By: SouthernGirl
No. Do NOT convey that to her (the bold part). Convey to her that you'd kick her out the door if she ever crossed the line with any guy, and you'd expect the same from her.
If you say what you said above, it'll stick in her mind like a burr. Like the boy whose mother, on one normal Wednesday, jokingly told him "I really wanted a girl, you know" ... and who was never able to forget that, and never felt the same sense of security in his mother's love as before.
The rest of your post, I agree with.
There's other little bits and pieces all over the place that seemed to say the same thing, unless I've been missing the point.
a fine and enviable madness, this delusion that all questions have answers, and nothing is beyond the reach of a strong left arm.