Andy, I hear what you are saying. Unfortunately my W is the one who intiated the last two conversations. I really have backed off but she is the one pushing for a conclusion.
She has found the area and now the house that she wants to buy. My W is the type of person once she makes up her mind there is no stopping her until she gets what she wants. She actually wants me to make things easier for her. She wants me to tell our DD's how great it is going to be having two houses. It sounded to me that she wants me to make things easier on her more then our kids. Maybe I am looking at this the wrong way, I am still hurting, this might be the best way to handle this for our kids.
She also told me that she wants to keep what is going on between us private and that I cannot talk to friends from church about this or the OMW. I agree with the OMW, I really do not need to talk to her, but, by telling me that I cannot talk to my church friends she is taking away a big part of my support.
I just need to keep doing what is best for me and my DD's. I cannot worry about what my W is doing.
