Need Veteran Piecer's Advice - desperately!!!

[Heartbroken]

Thanks!

I asked H to give me the next three months as a true separation - just like we would be divorced. I do need to let go and start thinking totally of my kids and myself - probably myself first (since I have not been doing this). H thinks the grass is greener and I guess he will have to learn the hard way -by then I will have moved on. I know I tried my hardest and now I have to let go...