I’d like your opinion. I have detached. I have noticed some change but my W does not communicate any feelings. It’s almost like reverse detaching. She still does things with my son and I. she has plans for the family in the coming months. But it is like we are in limbo land with our R. The confusing thing is she is trying to do some nice things for me. Little things but things. So in order to do these things it does mean she is thinking about me but she won’t communicate beyond day to day stuff. I’m afraid to pressure or ask her where are we, and where are we going to go in our marriage. What little ground I have gained I don’t want to lose. On the other hand I have only been doing this for 2 months. (Seams like 2 years). I can’t and don’t want to go 18 months. (In reality to save my son from hurt I would go a life time but that can’t be healthy for me)
Any inputs?
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
