Oh yeah, and welcome to the DB weight-loss club! Jazz and I have combined for over 100 pounds. Is there a ribbon for that? Perhaps a cocktail?
Understand this, he'll notice, but you may have to look for it. My wife has said NOTHING about me losing the weight. Yesterday, I was visiting "their" house (I had to move out, not wanted to) because the kids wanted me over to swim. I went into the kitchen just wearing my shorts to get some water. W says "I'd prefer that you not come in here without a shirt on". I know her and know what this meant. I've never been in good enough shape to walk around without a shirt on,but I am now after losing 55 pounds and lifting a lot of weights. She was reacting to my confidence, no doubt about it. Just the way she said it tells me that. Not only will the weight loss make you feel better, more confident, but it will be noticed.
