Why do these things happen

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Thank you Lin,
You do not know how much your words help.
I do realize when it comes to marriage and seperations, mine is really no worse or better than the average persons. It is the extra baggage that just makes it painful.
Life will be good, just let my self heal, and stop thinking that everything should change overnight. If I can let that part go, it will help the rollercoaster in my head to slow down, hell maybe even stop.