Your DB coach is right. Treat him like a friendly neighbor. How do you treat your neighbor? I usually wave or say hello to my neighbor. If they initiate any further talk, then I go with it. Do the same with your husband. He knows that you want this marriage. He knows how you feel. The ONLY thing that you can control is yourself. Stop trying to figure him out. Focus solely on your happiness and what you control. GAL...He will come back but you need to stop wasting time and focus on yourself.
Stop trying to do things on your own. A wise person learns from other people's advice. You can't do this your way. Listen to the wise people on the board.
