Piecing - H still contacts OW

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We had a good time yesterday night. The night before we talked about R and of course, it was not a happy talk. I specifically asked him to initiate the "talk" again yesterday night so we can continue. Well, he did, with wine and snack. He did initiate but not R talk. We ended up telling each other what happened during the day. Talking about our day is one of the things that we have agreed to work on because both of us complain (him esp.) that we do not know about each other's lives. So it was good that we both took the effort to let the other person know about some details of our daily lives. It was fun, I try to make my boring day fun (note to self: gotta do some more things outside of house other than sit in front of this computer). We did not talk about R at all. Instead, we planned another mini vacation so we can get away before the upcoming big move. I really wanted to talk "issues" but thanks to all your advice I held my tongue. So it was actually a lovely evening.
Looking forward to tonight. We were supposed to go to the gym but h wanted to stay home to have "couple time" again. Now I am re-reading some good advice about no R talk so I can concentrate on creating a lovely evening tonight.