Thanks for the encouragement. I really know to avoid R talk; it's just so hard sometimes. I actually made the decision to not speak R at all about a month ago ... where did that decision go?

I have a really difficult time "going dark" since H comes virtually every day to pick up our sons for school. Still, I'm going to try to limit interaction -- at least for this coming week.

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Me: 45
WAH: 46
Married: 23 yrs; together: 28 yrs (if this year's included)
S1: 17
S2: 13
Bomb w/ H walking out: 1/10/07