Was with with my late brother's family this evening and the topic about my sitch came up. My Sister-in-law was saying that I should send m W an email acknowledging her demand for a D, but at the same time let her know that "she is the person I want to spend the rest of my days with" and that my she should try and postpone the procedings for about a year or so before moving ahead.
I understand that no one can tell me what I must say, but any thoughts would really help
