Let's see, I got:

ILYBNILWY
It is not about you
You're a good mother and wife
OUr marriage is good
I don't know why this happened
I never intended it to happen
Five years from now, we will all be laughing about this

Then we got:

H and OW will be together for however long it takes
It is a love like no other
I don't know why I love her
Whoever said I was going to divorce your mom and marry OW?
I consider myself married to OW not you
I never want to sleep with you again


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19