have you thought about counseling for your son. i have done that for my sons. especially my 13 year old. the counselor told me that she can not tell me what was said but she did tell me that he hates what is going on and he feels that he is torn between the two of us. he loves us both and is afraid that if he talks about how he feels then he will hurt one or both of us. maybe that is what is going on with your son. i don't know what to do and i dont have all the answers but i tell my boys all the time that what is going on between us has nothing to do with them and that they did nothing wrong. they are great kids and we both love them all very much. yes i know that my kids may know that but i think constantly telling them that helps. just like me, i know logically that more than likely my h and the ow will not work out but still doubts come into my mind and it makes me feel better when someone still tells me that they will not work out. that is why i try to constantly tell my kids that thier father and i still love them very much and they did not do anything wrong. thier father leaving had nothing to do with them. just to let you know i think that you are doing an awesome job as a father.
me-30 h-38 m-11 yrs s-6 s-7 ss-13 h left-april 21,2007 found out of ea april 1, 2007
