Hey matilda Thanks. I’m getting ready to strap on the belt because the roller coaster is about to take off. My son (10) likes to pretend we are camping and about every other week I sleep with him in our camper on the driveway. We make popcorn get a movie (T.V in camper now that’s California camping). Ant way last night when we went to bed he started crying. I asked him what’s wrong. I told me he was thinking things he didn’t want to think. I asked him if he wanted to talk about it. He said no, but thanks for asking. I asked him does it have anything to do with Mom or Dad. He said yea. But it has not happened yet. I told him when he is ready to talk I’m will always be here to listen.
Ok A little back ground. We didn’t have a B-day party for my son this year because my wife was very sick. We are planning on having one when my son and I get back form our week long. Fishing, 4 wheeling, sandcastle building and what ever we want trip. He knows this. But my mind is playing the games again.
Is this what he was crying about? he know we are going to do it but haven’t yet’ or Does he suspect something is wrong between mom and dad? ( we don’t fight, no arguments around him) or Did he over hear a conversation between my W and the OM?
We are going to the movies (Wife, son and I) this after noon. So I am not going to do anything until after that my question for all you wise people that stayed home this weekend.
Should I go for a walk with my son and go play some catch. (That’s when we have the most interesting conversations). And try to find out what is the problem
Or
Talk to my W first about what happened.
The mind is a terrible think. The first though that came into my mind was he knows something about my W and the OM. But after I started writing this I thought about his b-day maybe that is what he was thinking.
Everyone here (includes me) talks about our S being in a fog. Sometime I wonder maybe I’m the one in the fog
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
