Sol, for a long time you obsessed about the A and now you obsess about MC. You are so stuck in the hurt and anger, it is very hard to DB properly. Is it righteous hurt and anger? Damn right! But, is it helping your sitch? NO. It's forcing you to make ultimatums that can only have one result, separation! As others have said, if you feel that is what must happen then continue, noone will judge you, we've all got our breaking point. But, if you want the M, then you must get out of the anger cycle. I too can sit down and tell my W that we must go to C or the party is over but that will just mean the party is over! It's not there for either of us. Think long and hard about how you approach this Sol. Let anger take a vacation to Disney World but you mellow and make good choices. You can do it, Sol!
