SW You need to handle your grief first....it seems she is oblivious to that. The me me me of MLC. She may not file....she may file and later stop it....she may go thru with it. Sometimes they have to do that to feel the loss. My H is the later sad to say...we have our first hearing in june. It seems so sureal as my lawyer moves ahead with this. But everyone is right , make changes for you
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
