You are so right. I have so much to be thankful for.
We always joke that we're not normal. This separation has been pretty civil. We still see each other every day and spend weekends together (not nights). We still have the occasional R talk and I do believe in my heart we will come out of this okay. I'm trying to give him his space while he figures things out and while I GAL.
It's such a roller coaster of emotions that overwhelm me sometimes.
As for your sitch, I agree... don't dwell on if there is OW or not. Even if there was and he's away out of guilt and trying to figure things out, your focusing on the what if's won't do YOU any good!! You need to concentrate on fixing your marriage and making yourself happy in the process, not guessing why this has happened, but you know that.
Hope you have a great day and had a good weekend!!
