Was it everything you were hoping for (aside from the element of surprise)?
It was quite hot. And I told you I was direct. I just busted out with "I'm horny" while were sitting on the couch. I'm not too subtle. Actually, I rarely ever just tell my H that I'm horny so maybe that is the way to go. I used to get annoyed he wasn't reading my "cues." He told me afterwards he loved that I was so direct with him and encouraged me to keep doing it. So I will. And the sex itself was great. He loves to get me off with oral (after he has his own way with me) so who am I not to oblige. Said he was going to collect on oral for him next time. Is this my H? LFL
The ball (no pun intended) is rolling!! I saw that in my own sitch. It was like once things got going good, w/ a bit of not so much effort as just being conscious of things, it keeps going!!!
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
Was it everything you were hoping for (aside from the element of surprise)?
It was quite hot. And I told you I was direct. I just busted out with "I'm horny" while were sitting on the couch. I'm not too subtle. Actually, I rarely ever just tell my H that I'm horny so maybe that is the way to go. I used to get annoyed he wasn't reading my "cues." He told me afterwards he loved that I was so direct with him and encouraged me to keep doing it. So I will. And the sex itself was great. He loves to get me off with oral (after he has his own way with me) so who am I not to oblige. Said he was going to collect on oral for him next time. Is this my H? LFL
He loves to give you oral after he's had his way with you? Interesting. I've never been a fan of male fluid or rubber flavor, so oral is always an appetizer around here rather than a dessert.
Looks like he's breaking out of his shell. I wonder just how much he's been picking up on your cues all along, and withdrawing sexually when he doesn't feel that you're all that into him. Like maybe his stepping up in the sex department is an effect, rather than a cause, of you feeling good about him and the relationship. I only say that because I remember a time when I couldn't get really enthusiastic about sex for a while and wasn't sure why, until one day I picked up an unmistakable "sex vibe" coming from her and got really turned on by it, and realized it had been lacking within her for some time. Of course maybe the sex vibe came from her because she felt that I was in a better place to begin with. No way to be sure how or where it ultimately started...
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He loves to give you oral after he's had his way with you? Interesting. I've never been a fan of male fluid or rubber flavor, so oral is always an appetizer around here rather than a dessert.
Well, there is no rubber flavor but there is male fluid. Although I can't say he gets right in there if you know what I mean. He concentrated on "the spot" which is fine with me. And he'll use fingers below. Actually I prefer he performs oral before the intercourse too because it feels so great when he slides in right after a big O. But I think he gets anxious about performing and would rather do that first. Either way, it's fine with me.
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I wonder just how much he's been picking up on your cues all along, and withdrawing sexually when he doesn't feel that you're all that into him. Like maybe his stepping up in the sex department is an effect, rather than a cause, of you feeling good about him and the relationship.
I'm certain that is the case. If he feels at all that I am rejecting him, he is not willing to push for the sex. Sot he cycle continued. I hope we at least have more insight into that now. LFL
Mr LFL and I ended up having a GREAT night last night!
I decided to just go top with him because...well, I was really horny, lol, and I was in no mood for "nice" sex. So I literally jumped on top of H while he was reading in bed and threw his book across the room. The best part was that he proceeded to "flip" me is about 5 seconds and do some very perverted things to me. I think my approach made him more aggressive himself so that was a win-win. I was even able to perform a BJ on him and he was sooo into it. He grabbed the back of may hair with one hand and forced my pace a bit (of course I enjoyed that part ) and MrLFL even got fairly dirty in his sex talk. What came over him I'm not sure but I was rollin' with it. We were both quite proud of our "performance" last night. It was nice just to be in the total same mindframe for once. Hooray for us! LFL
So the monkey turned lioness and the puppy dog responded by turning wolf and taking the lioness back down to monkey. Doesn't get much better than that. If he finished with a bear on bunny, I'll give it a solid 9.5.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
So the monkey turned lioness and the puppy dog responded by turning wolf and taking the lioness back down to monkey. Doesn't get much better than that. If he finished with a bear on bunny, I'll give it a solid 9.5.
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M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
Actually, I rarely ever just tell my H that I'm horny so maybe that is the way to go. I used to get annoyed he wasn't reading my "cues." He told me afterwards he loved that I was so direct with him and encouraged me to keep doing it. So I will.
Said he was going to collect on oral for him next time. 
) and MrLFL even got fairly dirty in his sex talk. 