I saw this post on the 40/60 board the other day and though how true it was, although with my husband i did even get the ILYBNILWY speech, i just got the I feel empty speech.
I am so sorry that you have been having a rough time lately, i think that your wife must be one crazy lady leaving a devoted husband like you. I truly hope that one day she comes to her senses and realises that the grass is not greener. In the mean time i wish you peace and self forfilled happiness.
Take care
Nicky
Me 34 H 33 D3 together 10 years married 2 years Bomb 22/8/06 (I feel empty) OW involved