Boy does this sound familiar... it's so hard finding a balance between stuff you really DO need to address vs "am I just saying this to throw it in his face." I even get that sarcastic streak sometimes, so I know what you mean.

Don't really have advice other than what you already know yourself, but wanted to let you know I empathize completely!

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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