My wife is falling in love with OM - help.

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Here ya go, KICK.
I just finished reading your thread, my heart goes out to you. Fortunately my WAW does not have a EA/PA that I know of, I do not really know how I would react. I agree with most in here, do not sign anything regarding buying a new house at the present moment.
YES YES YES, detach, never knew that would be the hardest thing in the world to do in life, but damn it is. Also remember that positives and negatives go hand in hand, thinking that is part of life now days. I know how hard it is not to kiss them goodbye, or say ILY, but you have too. Give her all the damn space she wants, it might be the only option you have to let her start missing and thinking what she has with you.
Good Luck !