s24 has asked to move back in with me temporarily. He was not ready maturity or financially when his dad made a stink about him during the divorce..so a big financial mess ensued with son trying to make it on his own. I've set strict rules, and hopefully he'll be able to stand on his own two feet sooner than later. It will be nice having someone here, but this apartment is not a house..and his presence will take some getting use to after more than 6 months of living completely alone.
S did tell me that his dad has joined a volleyball team at a local bar. Hmmmmm. I wonder what the age range for the team members..if maybe husband is a little long in the tooth compared to the others. He'll be 51, which I know isn't old-old..but still. Not my business I know, I just can't seem to get around the idea that this person that did nothing like this all those years, is NOW doing them.
I'm not kidding myself. Its going to be hard having s living here , and having to hear these tidbits about his dad.
Oh well...I've gone through worse, as have all of us. I'll just have to learn to bite my tongue when I feel a burning desire to come out with a less than complimentary commentary .
Women are angels. And when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick. We are flexible