After the bomb, I took my H away for a weekend to try to work on the marriage. He asked me to buy a bikini to wear at the hotel. I was so modest that I had not worn a bikini since I was 10. I got the courage to wear one and it did the trick for the weekend but it turned out he was in contact with the OOW the whole time we were away anyway. Oh well, I tried! Objectively, I think I looked pretty good in it for being past 40 with two kids.


Me45 H45 D13 S10 together-23 years married-21 years
MLC Divorced 10/3/07
Married to a wonderful new man.