H came over this evening and spent some time with D16. Then I invited him to go with me to walk our dog so we could talk alone. He seems to be in such pain and is so lonely! I will never understand why he thinks a divorce will help this situation. However, he said he did not want to be married any longer. We told our daughter. SHE comforted both of us!!! Guess I'll stop my dillusional thinking now and get busy figuring out my next step!

Matilda