Yes 25, That is my main dilema about standing- We have already gone through this and he does it again!!! Do I keep on beingpatient - taking him back when HE is ready only to have it happen again- all the while I live life afraid of screwing up or saying something that makes him leave again. I can't do that.

He called I will post on my other thread


Me:37
H:38
6 kids
first bomb 8/05 (ow involved)
piecing 7/06
second bomb 3/07 ow involved
wash rinse repeat....
huge move to start over 2/11
more affairs
H left for good 8/12