"What kind of a spouse that "wants" to be in a marriage refuses to go to M counseling?????? "
A spouse who is not strong enough to confront HERSELF yet because of embarassment, shame, guilt, and very low self-esteem. She is afraid and terrified of ANYONE really seeing HER for who she is and has become.
Compassion could really help here.
OT....
I think you are right. I know that along with her stubbornness, she has way too much pride to humble herself in front of a stranger.
AS I see it right now, she is not "into me".
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
