I cannot answer now as H is here visiting for the weekend. First time since Christmas all 5 of us together, and that was the first time in 2 years....there is friction between H and all of us, really. He is trying in his way, but it's so far short of what THEY need from him. Like an acknowledgment of what happened, how it hurt them, especially d18...will it ever happen? Does it have to? Don't know yet. I DO know I see h differently and am trying hard to get that lovin' feeling back....harder than I thought. I don't know if we'll make it. But we're trying. j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016