When's it my turn?

[Jen_Jam]

Hi SD

I am so glad you started a new thread, I saw your old post, when i read it I felt like saying stick with it
then a few days later I went on a dip down and felt like saying Yeah leave now
Now I'm on a level and would like to post more but need to ask a few questions, if you don't mind.

It's interesting though that I was down then up then level - sounds just like a rollercoaster, doesn't it? Piecing still can be like that. On Friday I was sat outside my house on the mobile crying down the phone to Scott - who was an absolute STAR. I'd recommend catching up on his posts, he's turning into a DB god. Anyway - enoough on me, I will update on my own thread shortly.

Bcak to you. My questions are:

1. What is on your list
2. What is on H's list?
3. What have you beeen doing to fulfil the things on H's list?
4. What has H been doing to fulfil the things on your list?

and maybe the most important

5. What have you been doing to fulfil the things on your list?

To me it sounds like you'ge going round and round and getting nowhere ... maybe a differnt tack? If you don't mind, answering the questions may revale more

(ps sorry if I sound a bit weird, posting after a nice HUGE glass of Chardonay drunk in a very hot bubble bath)

I'm really interested in your sitch because a lot of what you've said sounded like my sitch. You've said that about me too ... sometimes the similarities have been SCAREY!!!! I wish we could meet up and compare notes, think we'd need a good few hours, but heigh ho can't get to the US until next year (cash shortage). I think my H went through a mini MLC and to be honest I think he's still in it. His latest thing is giving up smoking, which is GREAT, I am doing it too and want to. he feels he's getting older and needs to look after his health better. I will say it took H a LONG time to get back to anything apporaching normal, he's still not quite there yet and it's coming up for 2 years, FFS!!! Just saying if your H is in a similar place to mine you're going to have to give him more time. Re-read the bit about MLC in the DR book, Michelle has it spot on when she says that needing patience is an understanement.

OK - SD my wine is calling and I've blethered enough. Please post in a few more details ... cast your objective eye over the R and we'll put our cyberspace heads together (I'm sure Scott, Rob and Jeff will be along soon) and see if we can come up with some different perspectives.

Hang on in there (((((SD))))) ..... and I can thouroughly recommend a large glass of Chardonnay for you right now! LOL