I'm with Jeff! I'm certainly not in piecing...but I have to believe as the two of you re-build this R you will both need to learn how to communicate your needs better than you have in the past. Big difference Jen. That doesn't imply nagging or being needy. What you did was state how you have been feeling...and even took ownership of those feelings. Good for you! And I hope you enjoy some Basil real soon.