husband it is funny that you said that. my bil called me friday and told me that my h is trying to get my family to see that what he is doing is not wrong.(which is not going to happen)my h says that he has the right to be happy and be with ow(even though we are still married.) he said that he has the right to date whoever he wants and i can go out and date whoever i want that there is no crime in this. granted no one will be arrested but i value my marriage vows and i take them seriously. i think he is just saying this bc it is an excuse. also if i were to date someone right now(which i wouldn't) he could get rid of the guilt he is feeling. cl i have not had to see my h with the ow but i know it is coming soon and i am not looking forward to see my h with the ow but i know it is coming soon. i just hope i do as well as you did and stay calm and not show how much it hurts.i admire you for how you delt with the situation.
me-30 h-38 m-11 yrs s-6 s-7 ss-13 h left-april 21,2007 found out of ea april 1, 2007
