“I'm terrified I'm making the wrong decision.” Yvonnec there are no wrong decisions. They are just decision. What ever decisions we make they have been made and we need to deal with them. There are bad decisions and we need to work harder on correcting them. But there are no wrong decisions. Moving will get you out of that town. And at least for awhile you can work on your R with your husband away from the OW. You also will have time to establish a network of friends in this new town. Soooo If the OW was to move there later she would be coming to your home turf. If thing don’t work out between you and your H. YOU WILL SURVIVE. Stay another year and then move to KY. Who knows you may find someone in PA that ya hit it off with and stay there. My point is you have a lot to deal with now in the present. Looking ahead 2 years is getting too fare ahead of yourself.
It seems you are going to move. Your choices are move to PA and try to save your marriage. It may work it may not if not move to KY when you can Or Just let go and move to KY now. You can still work on saving your marriage but it will be long distance.
Either one is right or wrong they are just different.
And last but not least remember I AM NO EXPERT otherwise I would not be here either
I’m not driving this car; I’m jus along for the ride
Husband
Last edited by husband; 05/27/0704:15 PM.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
