Hey lost. I know DBing stresses taking care of your self. Doing things that make you happy. And like you putting my Son’s (your kids) well being ahead of my needs does make me happy. They are the innocent bystander in all of this. And it sounds like you have the courts standing behind you. How old is your husband? Name calling? Come on now is sounds like you were taking care of more kids that you realize all this time.. I heard the song “father & son I think it was by cat Stevens. The end of the song goes. “My son grew up just like me,yea my son was just like me” I made me think. No matter what happens in my marriage I want my son to be proud of me. I want him to want to be JUST LIKE ME. So I need to be Strong, faithful, caring and understanding.
Take care lost I think about all of you everyday Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
