Amy, I just don't think that anything shared on an internet site, where there is a sense of security behind the computer screen that we can take anything for the gospel except the gospel! We all bring our experiences with us, and we can not expect everyone to have the same view as we do. I respect and cherish all who post and what they post. I just have to understand the are coming from their perspective.
Case in point: my sister in law is BIL second wife. She was not involved in the breakup of BIL first marriage. In a strong catholic family this was hard to swallow for MIL and FIL. Well SIL had a long hard road to acceptance with this family. Now she is the one, with high morals and a strong faith, and wanting to keep me as a member of the family, to tell me that eventually TJ's family will accept her. She is a nice person, etc....... She is projecting her experiences on this situation. I have to see and recognize this perspective for what it is, and it may not be 100 fact. My other SIL conflicts these stories. So I do not take all said on these sites as clear vision, only a viewpoint. I am sorry if I offended you. I meant no harm. Holly
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
