And what is even more strange is that my H still says our marriage was good and when he was asked why he went out and got a girlfriend, he said he did not know. Then he was asked why he even had one and he still said he did not know.

This questioning was not by me, it was from his probation officer. She and I were talking one day about her psych. training and she told me that he is a tough one because he does not give out information you have to pry it out of him a little at a time.

She wanted to know about his childhood and it took her two months to get a little info.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19