I just wanted to endorse Steelersfan's commentthat it is not always a marital problem that brings this on.

Like her husband, my wife was bragging to friends,6 months before the bomb, that we had a strong marriage, (22 years at that time).

Now, well I have a wife like FIB's, will not talk to me, will not ring me, will not communicate with me, and everything is a secret.