I was not trying to say that in all cases it is marital problems. I was only trying to say that every situation is different.
I am not sure what mine situation is right now. I am trying to grasp at anything and everything to explain why this happened and try to make it work.
I know we both loved each other. We had some minor issues that I think are at the heart of the situation. When we fought we did not have healthy fights. But I thought everything was fine, I guess now I have to reasses that.
I am not trying to minimize anything. I just think that everyone has a different situation that may seem the same as everyone elses. But I can see where all of the situations that I have mentioned would have somewhat of the same situation.
I also do agree with you in ragards to the op. In my case my H is living with OW in Parents house only 1 month after getting together with her. Now what does that say for your and the values she is teaching her d8. What else does that say for her parents and the values the instilled in her?
mimi
Bomb 3/31/2007 Moved out 04/22/2007 Moved back in 06/11/2007 Wants to stay and try 09/04/2007