The last couple of days H has texted me several times a day. (This is different, but he is back to work after a 3 week vacation). He continues to sound depressed. He tells me he is sad, but it sounds more than that to me. Earlier in the week we had talked about telling D16 that he wants a divorce when he returned from his 4 day business trip. I am not sure how to ask him if we're going to do that tonight. I would like to say let's wait until we are both in a better frame of mind, but he'll probably just say I am procrastinating. Still wish this was all a bad dream!

Matilda