Don't discount snail mail for your children, FLTC. Even at 16, getting real mail is a joy (my sister sent my D16 a card and she was so surprised to have real mail!). No matter what happens between you and your W, building back a rapport with your children seems to me to be an important task. Just simple cards with a clear message that you love them. Ask about their activities and then respond to what they write about. I could just imagine telling your son about some of the dessert critters you encounter (looking ahead for when you are in Iraq). It might be a "stretch" finding happy thoughts right now, but let them know you are thinking of them. Pick up some cards at the PX. Buy 3 of the same card and mail separately to each child. Send mail even if you don't hear back from them right away. (of course, you will have to withdraw more money from savings just to pay for postage until you get overseas--LOL).
Remember that this is the time you need to be thinking of making FLTC happy and healthy! That won't happen over night. Remember that you want this separation to be a positive experience for all of you.
I know Memorial Day weekend isn't easy! Try to forget the beach, family cookouts, etc. You are there in the midst of the real meaning of Memorial Day. Thank you for your part in making all of us safer and more secure!!!!! Good luck with the training and your long days.
