Are you really going to be happy with a guy that you have to explain this to, rather than one who simply sees the fun of it right away?
That is how I feel lots of times. If I have to tell H how and when and why to be "top", it is not only not going to work because he won't be comfortable enough to do it, but because I won't be feeling "bottom" if I have to instruct the man in that way. So frustration tends to build. I am really just at the point where I am questioning myself here and wondering why I can't let this go. He is a great guy in many ways. What the F is wrong with ME that I can't just drop all this and move on with the life we have? LFL
