Even though my 2bx rarely acted HD, he frequently acted top so we usually did have hot monkey sex when we had it.
Well, it's the "acting top" part that my H can't seem to embrace so I don't know if we will ever have "hot monkey sex." I've pretty much given up on any desire to even try that. Thanks for the suggestions though.
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So you would never, for instance, start rubbing yourself up against your H in bed?
Oh sure, sometimes. But again, I'd have to be pretty darn horny like you were saying to do it. Most of the time I'd probably just MB instead. Avoid the hassle.
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This is going to sound like an odd suggestion but maybe you ought to read some high quality gay male erotica in order to make yourself more object-oriented. Of course, you also run the risk that you will just freak your H out by putting out that kind of vibe if his bandwidth is narrow.
Uhm....no. Lol. My H doesn't look at hetero porn much less gay porn. I know you said it was for me but I don't think that would get me anywhere. I am at least somewhat object-oriented. H is not at all. I have Never caught him looking at anything sexual. I remember once in our first apartment, the mailman kept delivery some porno mag to I guess the guy who lived there before us. H showed no interest in looking at it and threw it in the trash. I snuck it out later cause I was curious,lol. See, always having to feel ashamed of my sexuality. Why couldn't I just talk to him about it? But I just couldn't.
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Teach your nice Alpha H by actually saying what you want and telling him why you want it, why it turns you on or gets you off. The brain is only the sexiest organ when you hook it to your tongue.
I still don't think that is the issue. Burgbud said it best when he noted......
