My W still wants me to request some time off from work so she can take daughter to Disneyworld and Miami (though she was looking at other locations in her online search)...but she wants me to go too - she got upset that I didn't tell her if I am taking time off from work for this.
1: We don't have the money for any "vacations"....unless she wants to put it on her credit card, which she complains is "full" but is really only half full - she lied.
2: If I don't go, she will go anyway with daughter.....but she really doesn't want to do that. She does not like to travel alone and wants to drive instead in order to "save" money....it will still cost.
3: She is avoiding the issues at hand....like working on our marriage, and buying jewelry and clothes for herself and fixing up the house....
I'm sorry, but going on a vacation when there is no money for this and our M is in the brink (at least it is with me now....) tells me she is not serious about working on it and is just repeating all of the mistakes from our past.
Her response to my requests for going to counseling/stopping all contact with OM and leaving her sister alone was this: "You deprive my life"....that's what she said. And the weird thing is she is still interested in helping me build my art business by advertising by word of mouth. This is a nice gesture from her, something she could have done years ago (am I complaining???), but still nice and I don't really know why she won't agree to leave but stay miserable in this M? ....ahh, no matter, I am filing if I don't see her change, and I might just see her change WHEN I file.......but I am not filing in order to get her attention, I am no longer interested in living in a DEAD M.
Anyway, I am up right now because my daughter is sick, and I was hungry.
Last edited by sol1696; 05/27/0707:16 AM.
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