No, the emotion is not gone about the kids. He has always felt sorry for the underdog of the world (particularly kids) and taken on responsibilities he shouldn't have (i.e. helping the under privileged - i.e. druggies. homeless and the like). Unfortunately, this was part of the problem that led to his depression and mental breakdown - his need to "fix the world" which in reality was him actually trying to fix himself, by making himself feel better (i.e less guilty for his past). He still feels sorry for the kids but now he realizes they are her problem, not his and that he can't fix the world.
He has not been sexually involved with OW for just over a year now, although he has called her and saw her numerous times during that year that I obviously was not aware of since I only found out for sure about her in December 2006. All the time he was giving her money for the kids. Whether anyone chooses to believe that other than me doesn't really matter because I do and that's the only person that has to believe it.
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
